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Welcome Kevin Mark Smith

Today it is my privilege to introduce you to a talented fellow writer, Kevin Mark Smith, author of Flashback, a book whose thesis will demand your attention. In his day job, he is a lawyer, but his gift for professional legalese has not paralyzed his creative talent. Today he posts about the reason you need to read Flashback. You will quickly recognize how this story addresses the pressure of secular thinking in our culture, and portrays the tension of living a life of faith under the stress of this pressure.

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The inner struggle that plagues us all

All great stories begin with inner conflict. For Christian novels this is especially true. The protagonist needs something to move him away from worldly appetites and toward Christ. This is how the idea for Flashback came to me as I sat in a Freddy’s Steakburger restaurant in Derby, Kansas, sometime in January 2012. Specifically, a question occurred to me. What if the image people see of us indicates success? Yet, the image is an illusion, a mask to cover something deeper—a long lost desire to be a better person and not just strive for monetary success. With that Kenneth Cartwright, rich entrepreneur and lawyer, was born.

We are all guilty of wanting more things in our lives. New cars, boats, jewelry, clothes, whatever. It’s the product of a consumption-based economy. The TV bombards us with images of success, images we want to be part of. We want to be that buff model standing on the bow of the yacht with long, flowing hair blowing behind us. But what if the better part of our souls speak loud enough for us to hear it? What if it poses the questions, “Are you really happier with all those expensive toys? Wouldn’t life be better if you sought true success, the kind that lasts forever?” In Flashback I take these nagging truths to another level. What if we had the chance to live that better life but turned our backs on it, only to realize later how much the choice cost us. Kenneth sees that life in parallel when he sleeps. He sees the wife and daughters that complete his dream life then awakens each morning to the same old drudgery that the world tells him is success.

Ouch. God reminding you every night how stupid you were being smart. How humbling is that? God’s grace is always enough. In Flashback, God’s grace is first manifest in the angelic Stacy who listens to Kenneth as he tells her about his disturbing dreams. But is Kenneth’s meeting Stacy just some sick joke, a further reminder of how dumb he was to take the left fork in the road, the one away from God and family and toward wealth and success? She is too good for him, so what’s the point in developing a friendship with her? God’s grace also gives him a case and client to remind him how vain it is to seek after fleeting things. The client dies under suspicious circumstances and Kenneth scrambles to discover the truth behind his death, a truth that threatens his own life and those closest to him.

Conspiracies, drug lords, assassins, and a shocking end. Will it be enough to open Kenneth’s eyes to the truth? Will he finally realize what it is God is trying to tell him, that choosing success over God and family was the wrong choice, perhaps a fatal one? Buy Flashback now to find out. $.99 for Kindle for a limited time.





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Choose Life

Torah ScrollChoose life so that you and your descendants may live, loving the Lord your God, obeying him, and holding fast to him.  Deuteronomy 30:19b-20

Read the passage leading up to this verse.

See, I set before you today life and prosperity, death and destruction. For I command you today to love the LORD your God, to walk in his ways, and to keep his commands, decrees and laws; then you will live and increase, and the LORD your God will bless you in the land you are entering to possess.
But if your heart turns away and you are not obedient, and if you are drawn away to bow down to other gods and worship them, I declare to you this day that you will certainly be destroyed. You will not live long in the land you are crossing the Jordan to enter and possess.
This day I call heaven and earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses.  (Deuteronomy 30:15-19a)

  • The word life occurs twice in the passage preceding this verse. What do the verses say about life? How are people supposed to improve their lives?
  • Remember when God created human beings? The Bible says, “the Lord God formed the man from the dust of the ground and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life, and the man became a living being.”  (Genesis 2:6-7) What sort of life did God give with his own breath?
  • In the Ten Commandments, God said, “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.” (Exodus 20:12) What is the unique gift parents give to their children? Some fathers and mothers do very bad things that most people believe justify separation from the parents. Nevertheless, God’s call to honor parents is not conditional. What do we honor in parents who have dishonored themselves?
  • On Sinai God said, “You shall not murder.” Exodus 20:13 What does this verse tell us about the value of life?  Jesus said, “I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” (John 10:10) What does this verse tell us about the value of life?
  • Following today’s verse, Moses continued speaking and said, “The Lord is your life.” We speak of life in the time/space context and life in the eternal/infinite context. To which “life” is Moses referring? Which life does he want the people to improve?
  • The word life has a rich meaning in the context of a Christian’s relationship to Christ. How would you explain it to a secular thinker?

Is a Baby a Relative Value or an Absolute?

One of the huge areas of difference between Christians and secular thinkers is the way we set our standards for behavior. Secular thinkers determine their values relative to a setting, and their values are always subject to evolve with changes in time and setting. Christians determine their values by studying God’s revelation in the written Bible. As a consequence of the very different approach to determining the values, it is commonly agreed that secular values are relative and Christian values are absolute. Christians do not believe that values evolve or that they should be different depending on the situation. Christians also believe that the Creator has written his most important values in the hearts of all men, even men who reject his very existence.

Recently the Florida legislature was treated to an exposition of the way secular thinkers apply a relative value to human life. Alisa LaPolt Snow, a lobbyist for Florida Alliance of Planned Parenthood Affiliates testified before the legislature in opposition to text in a bill proposed to regulate abortions in Florida. Ms. Snow objected, on behalf of Planned Parenthood, to two clauses in the bill which she called “surrender” and “transport.” Having not seen the actual text of the bill, I must rely on the comments in the video clip I saw, but I recommend you view the clip for yourself and draw your own conclusions. The comments led me to conclude that the ‘surrender’ clause required the woman who had sought an abortion to relinquish control of a baby born alive in the process of attempting an abortion. Likewise, the ‘transport’ clause appeared to require that a baby born alive be transported immediately to a hospital for life-sustaining care.

Ms. Snow stuttered a bit in her attempts not to use the words ‘baby’ and ‘mother’ when she was asked why she objected to a requirement that a doctor provide advanced life support to a baby born alive during an attempted abortion. She almost said ‘mother’ on one occasion and quickly switched to the word ‘patient.’ During this exchange with one of the legislators, the legislator asked if the baby were not, in fact, the ‘patient’ at this point. Ms. Snow was repetitive and persistent in her claim that the person who had requested the abortion was the patient, and that the patient and the healthcare provider should make the decision about the disposition of the baby.

This discussion is enlightening:

“So, um, it is just really hard for me to even ask you this question because I’m almost in disbelief,” said Rep. Jim Boyd. “If a baby is born on a table as a result of a botched abortion, what would Planned Parenthood want to have happen to that child that is struggling for life?”

“We believe that any decision that’s made should be left up to the woman, her family, and the physician,” said Planned Parenthood lobbyist Snow.

People who believe that the gift of life is given by God do not see this situation in the same way as Ms. Snow. Christians look in the Bible for guidance on issues of faith and life, and everywhere in the Bible they see respect for life. The Ten Commandments include a law protecting life, and throughout the Old Testament there is a consistent teaching of respect for human life. The New Testament, the record of the New Covenant in Jesus’ own blood, is even more consistent in its regard for life. In fact, eternal life is considered to be the greatest gift God gives to people. If life is something a doctor and a reluctantly pregnant woman can decide to end because it is inconvenient, then life isn’t worth much.

A search for the word “abortion” in a concordance or in the Bible will produce no results. In such a case, some Christians jump to the conclusion that if the word is not mentioned, then the Bible has nothing to say on that subject. This is a mistake easily made by both secular thinkers and biblical literalists. Both groups miss the whole purpose of the Bible. The miracle of the Bible is that even though each text was inspired and written down within a social, political and historical context, the message God gave was timeless. The texts themselves span thousands of years, and the last text written for inclusion in the Bible was written nearly two thousand years ago. Yet the Bible is not limited only to issues of the eras in which its texts were produced. In every case the purpose of the text transcends its historical setting. Likewise, terminology has changed over the time, but biblical principles have not changed. A careful study of the Bible will show that the God revealed in the texts is completely consistent and his teachings are consistent over a body of text produced across thousands of years. People sometimes stumble over issues that are, in fact, limited to a time/space setting that no longer exists, but always, the deep principles transcend any era or individual.

So it is with the issue of “abortion” which is actually an issue about the value God sets on human life.

The secular view of abortion starts with the assumption that from conception until birth, the entity contained within a woman’s uterus is not human. Some people in comment threads on the internet even question that this entity is alive! Obviously it is living or it would not grow. However, the secular way of thinking views this entity as an impersonal bundle of cells. Secular thinkers will use the term “fetus” for that entity, but they are unlikely to use the term “baby” unless the mother voluntarily permits the birth and accepts the baby. Then it can be a baby. In this whole process, the secular view avoids giving any value to life itself – the driving force of living things. Secular thinking treats a human being as an object whose transformations along the path from conception to birth are valued no more than a geometric theorem. The entity within the womb is something not quite human.

It cannot be a baby, of course, as long as it is subject to “a woman’s right to choose.” If a woman has a right to choose, then it could be a lump of cells, it could be “products of conception,” it could be a fetus or a blob, but it cannot be a sweet pink baby with bright eyes and a rosebud mouth, with silken skin, with tiny eyelashes and fingernails and ten chubby little toes. Whatever it is that lies upon a cold table after a botched attempt at late-term abortion, the secular thinker cannot call it a baby. The secular thinker must refuse to permit abortion to consist of a mother’s decision to kill her own baby.

This was Ms. Snow’s dilemma as she testified before the Florida legislature. She paused and stuttered and choked a bit before mumbling that she didn’t have the information they wanted. She claimed that she really did not know if Planned Parenthood had a policy for the disposition of the product of a failed abortion.

One might almost believe that she never asked and nobody in Planned Parenthood ever answered the question the legislators kept asking – except for the fact that Ms. Snow testified that Planned Parenthood objected to the wording around ‘surrender’ and ‘transport. She insisted that the decision about the disposition of the product of a failed abortion was in the hands of the ‘patient’ and the ‘healthcare provider.’ All this careful choice of words and obvious hesitation to acknowledge the real question betrays a lot of previous conversations about the way to avoid speaking the truth: that Planned Parenthood is absolutely committed to the death of every aborted baby, even if the baby is born alive.

One legislator did make the point that a newborn baby struggling to live was obviously the ‘patient’ in this situation, which leads any thinking individual to ask how that ‘patient’ could more clearly speak his desire to live. One might also ask if it is actually appropriate to say that the other party to the decision has been involved in providing ‘healthcare.’ How can it possibly be healthcare if the intended outcome is somebody’s death?

This is the sort of thing that happens when values are relative. In this case, Ms. Snow is testifying that the value of the baby’s life is relative to the desires and convenience of the mother and the doctor. In fact, Ms. Snow studiously avoided calling the woman from whom this baby had been ‘precipitated’ (the term used to describe the process of evicting the baby from the uterus) the ‘mother’ of the ‘baby.’ In order to preserve legal distance from the human beings involved, Ms. Snow was compelled to contort the language. It seemed quite obvious that she felt incapable of making her heartless demands if she actually recognized that she was suggesting that a physician, who had sworn an oath to “first do no harm,” could really participate in the necessary actions to kill a baby whose mother rejected him or her. Relative morals clearly require human beings to avoid recognizing the humanity of any party to a moral decision.

Secular thinkers reject what they call the tyranny of absolutism. Yet, the Bible teaches Christians that there are absolutes. Life is one of them. The Bible does not cover up human behavior that shows no respect for God’s gift of life; you will find plenty of evidence in the Bible that Ms. Snow’s callous attitude toward human life is not a new development in history. Rather the Bible shows that God himself values human beings immensely. Christ came to earth and died, because God loves and values people. They are his ultimate creation. Human beings contain in themselves God’s own creative image, and they are the only beings completely free to choose between right and wrong. They are his beloved creation, and God grieves every bad choice they make. He was willing to sacrifice his own Son for them, because he values human beings with his absolute love.

God’s commands, revealed in the Bible, tell us a lot about him. His command to refrain from murder is a clear evidence of the value he places on human life. He did not say, “Don’t murder any human being, except the unborn.” He said, “No murder.” Period. No qualification. No conditions. When humans, in the course of assuring public safety and international security, must murder others, that behavior comes with a terrible cost. Men who have shot other men in the course of police work or military battle are nevertheless changed by the experience. Something breaks in a person who has taken another person’s life, by accident or design. Life is precious. God doesn’t want us to squander that gift. Those who must kill a person in the cause of justice or military action are not permitted by God to move past that event as if it were trivial.

Life is better when people try to live by God’s absolutes. Notice the word “try.” None of us can really live up to that standard, but our lives are richer when we hold to that standard and keep working at it. Our lives are richer when we give every newborn baby a chance to live, the best possible chance we can provide. When we show respect and value for God’s gift of life to a newborn baby, it becomes easier to show respect and value for an aged man dying in a nursing home. We will give honor to the life of that man until God himself takes that man home to be with him. When we show respect for God’s gift of life, it will be easier to decide what to do when an unexpected pregnancy enters our lives. When we show respect for God’s gift of life, it won’t be so hard to decide how to treat our aged parents or our sick children. Life has a value all by itself. Life is a good thing, all by itself. God’s absolute is “no murder,” or to put it another way, “life always.”

God himself puts it in the human heart to respect human life. Every human is born knowing that murder is wrong. God writes his complete aversion to murder on the heart of every human being at the moment of creation. Cain knew it was wrong; why else did he lure Abel away from their parents? Primitive tribes in South America know it is wrong; every primitive tribe has created complex cultural mantras and practices to prevent murder and surround even just or military murder with social protections, guides and penalties. Ms. Snow knows that murder is wrong, but as long as she can sustain her semantic cover-up of the reality of murder in the course of abortions, she can sustain her sense of self-respect. Every primitive tribesman and every twenty-first century lobbyist has God’s values written on his (or her) heart at the time of creation, and every one of them knows that murder is wrong.

Ms. Snow knows it, too. She can’t say it, however. She is captive to her work as a lobbyist. She pays her bills and buys her fine clothes and jewelry with money earned by saying, in essence, that black is white. Christians who are praying for the Florida legislature to do the right thing in their law governing abortions must also pray for Ms. Snow. Why? Because Christ loves Ms. Snow and Christ died for Ms. Snow. Christians must pray that she will be filled with God’s goodness and blessing, and to be given clear vision of the precious value of God’s gift of life to newborn babies. They must pray the same for the Florida legislature. And while they are at it, let them pray for all the mothers for whom unplanned and unintended pregnancy seems like a burden they cannot bear.

Abortions are not simply the knee-jerk reaction of people who have never given any thought to the logical outcome of sexual activity. They are the blasé reaction of people who consider that adults have a right to the joy of sex without any obligation to care for the life it creates if they didn’t want that life. In their minds, the baby in the mother’s womb is like an ingrown toenail or a splinter in the finger; that baby is an unwanted alien object inside a woman’s body. When Christians pray that abortions will end and babies will be treasured, they must pray that generations of adults will have a change of heart about sex and about babies, and they must pray that forthcoming generations of children will learn the power, the beauty, and the responsibility of sex.

Ms. Snow’s convoluted arguments about who should decide what to do with an unwanted baby who somehow gets born alive despite everyone’s best efforts to kill it only make sense if you believe that it really isn’t anybody’s fault that this baby appeared. It is a completely unintended and unwanted complication to somebody’s life. Two adults wanted the love and the fun of sex, and then along came this bunch of cells that would be a baby if it got born, and then it does. What to do?

Ms. Snow is trying to tell us that everything is relative. Relative to the two people who had so much fun at sex some considerable time ago, this baby is an unwanted and unneeded complication. Ms. Snow is trying to say that the baby’s life only has value to the mother now, and if the mother considers it trash, then trash it is. Christians must pray that people who think like this will meet Christ face to face and discover that life is a treasure, that sex is not a toy for self-indulgence, and that a baby is not a problem but a gift. Christians could pray all day every day about only this problem and do a great deal of good for the world, because when Christians pray such prayers, they enter into God’s redemptive work for humankind. We can do all the political activism we want. We can sign petitions and write letters and vote for senators and representatives, but when all is said and done, Christians must pray. We must trust that God cares enough about humankind to save these babies, because God cared enough about humankind to send Christ to die for all of us. Pray.

A Hymn For Meditation

Take My Life and Let It Be          

Take my life, that I may be
Consecrated Lord, to thee.
Take my moments and my days,
Let them flow in ceaseless praise.

Take my hands and let them move
At the impulse of thy love;
Take my feet and let them be
Swift and beautiful for thee.

Take my voice and let me sing
Always, only, for my King.
Take my lips and let them be
Filled with messages from thee.

Take my love; my Lord, I pour
At thy feet its treasure store;
Take myself, and I will be
Ever, only, all for thee.

                   Frances Havergal

  • Life, time, body, talents, heart. What can we hold back from Jesus and use in a secular way?
  • We are busy people. How can we possibly let all our time be used to praise Christ?
  • The hardest possible thing is to speak only for Christ. What will you not say if you are speaking for Christ? When will you be silent, because of Christ, and when will you speak up, if Christ is behind all your words?
  • If you love Christ above all else, how does that change the way you spend your money? How does that change the way you rear your children? How does that change your attitude toward people who disagree with you?

A Verse for Meditation


The Road to Emmaus appearance, based on Luke 2...
The Road to Emmaus appearance, based on Luke 24:13-32, painted by Joseph von Führich, 1830. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

The words that I have spoken to you are spirit and life.                               John 6:63

  •  This is a short verse, but dense. Jesus is the Word, yet he calls his words to your attention. How can those words be life?
    Read Genesis 1:3 God spoke, “Light” and his word came into being. Jesus is God in the flesh. Think about his words.)
  • Jesus asks you to think back to the words “spoken to you.” Jesus has spoken to you. What did he say? When did his words “burn within you” as they burned in the hearts of the travelers to Emmaus?  (see Luke 24:13-25)
  • Have you ever said to someone, “Do you get my meaning?” The words of Jesus are spirit, and in that spirit is the meaning. What does Jesus say to you over and over, perhaps asking again and again, “Do you get my meaning?”
  • Jesus once said to his disciples, “I am the way, the truth and the life.” Where do you find life in Jesus’ words?